I thought confidence was about believing, visualising, pumping yourself up, trusting your swing, and “committing to the shot.”

All the usual clichés.

But then I ran headfirst into one of the most embarrassing, frustrating stretches of golf in my life.

A stretch where my “confidence” wasn’t just useless — it was actively destroying my game.

I wasn’t playing golf.
I was playing fantasy golf.

Hero shots.
Stupid targets.
Driver where iron made sense.
Over-aggressive lines.
Chasing miracles.
Lying to myself about the golfer I thought I was.

And my scores proved it. Then one day — one shot, one lucky bounce — slapped me across the face and forced me to confront something uncomfortable:

My confidence wasn’t real. It was delusion. Ego. "Dickheadness" (The word of the year.)

That moment triggered the fastest book I’ve ever written — because once I saw the truth, I realised:

Every golfer is carrying fake confidence. Nobody is coaching the real stuff.

And here’s the real turning point…

Everything truly clicked when I went to New Zealand and watched regular club golfers — 12 handicaps, 18 handicaps, 25 handicaps — throw shots away left, right and centre.

Not because they lacked talent.
Not because their swing was broken.
Not because they needed a lesson.

But because they were making the exact same dickhead mistakes I had been making.

Hero lines.
Fantasy targets.
Delusional club choices.
Overconfidence in shots they’ve never hit.
Zero awareness of their REAL patterns.
Fighting the course instead of playing it.

It was like watching a psychological accident in slow motion.

And that’s when the penny dropped:

Golfers aren’t lacking confidence — they’re hardwired wrong.

Humans are biologically wired to:

- overestimate their ability
- chase miracle shots
- ignore danger
- remember the one miracle
- forget the twenty disasters

- play the fantasy version of the golf game they think they have

This isn’t a “you” problem. This is an evolution problem.

And unless you understand how your brain is quietly sabotaging you, you will continually let yourself down on the course — even when your swing is good enough.

That moment showed me something powerful:

Golfers don’t need new technique. They need new thinking.

And once you fix the thinking, the confidence, clarity, and scoring transform almost overnight. This book shows you how.

This book exposes the psychology behind overconfidence, why golfers sabotage rounds without realising, and exactly how to build the calm, pressure-proof confidence that actually holds up under fire.

No drills.
No technique.
No fluff.

Just truth, psychology, and simple, brutally effective strategy. And once this clicks for you — your entire game changes.

The golf industry has sold you a lie. 

You’ve been taught to chase perfection. 

To fix your swing before you’re allowed to play. 

To analyse, control, and micromanage every movement like you’re performing brain surgery. 

It’s all bullshit. 

And it’s why your golf sucks. 

You don’t need another drill, or a fancy coach barking technical jargon at you. 

You need to unlearn the garbage that’s been shoved down your throat for years — and go back to playing golf the way it was meant to be played. 

Simple. Natural. Automatic.

- The 5 psychological biases that trick you into stupid decisions Your brain lies to you before you swing. Learn how to beat it.

- The Hero Complex (and how to stop playing like a dickhead) This chapter alone will save you 3–7 shots per round. Minimum.

- How “boring golf” secretly produces the most exciting scores The golf you CAN hit beats the golf you WISH you could hit — every time.

- The Lazy Golfer Principle How the laziest golfer on the course often becomes the most lethal. (this is a follow-on from my other best selling book, UNF#ck Your Golf Brain).

- When to attack (without sabotaging your round) This isn’t anti-aggression. It's anti-stupidity. Big difference.

- The 10-Round UNFK Confidence Challenge The system that rewires your confidence in 10 rounds or less — no mechanics required.

Plus, there's a video resource that covers the main concepts, stories and lessons from the book (but in video form).

If you’ve ever walked off a course wondering, “What the hell happened today?” — this book answers it.

This is not a swing book.
This is not a woo-woo mindset book.
This is a truth book.

It’s the missing link between your potential and your actual scores.

If you want a calmer brain, smarter decisions, fewer disasters, and confidence that actually survives pressure…

Then Unf#ck Your Golf Confidence will change your game faster than anything you’ve read.

This offer includes the brand new ebook (approximately 100 pages) and the bonus supporting videos. I'm also including one of my original books, Play Golf Your Way, as part of the offer (because it supports the content beautifully).

No change of mind refunds. All sales are final. 

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